A Goth style is defined as one that focuses on the darker side of life (or, more appropriately, death). It emerged as a style in response to the punk genre in England; a generation of rebels that dressed and acted in ways that would indicate their utter rebellion to all things conventional. As with most [...]

A Goth style is defined as one that focuses on the darker side of life (or, more appropriately, death). It emerged as a style in response to the punk genre in England; a generation of rebels that dressed and acted in ways that would indicate their utter rebellion to all things conventional. As with most trends, Goth became an image in itself; ironically characteristic despite the huge efforts not to conform. A Goth themed wedding should only be considered by couples that actually subscribe to this style and image in everyday life. If you are trying a Goth theme for the first time, it may seem ‘weird’, more than mysterious or unconventional. Therefore, it is imperative that you consider this theme very carefully before deciding upon it. Still, if it is right for you, a Goth theme can be really fun and beautiful.

Colours and Design Elements
Because the Goth image is known for its ‘dark’ nature, black is an obvious choice. It is a good idea to add a colour to the black to give it depth and character and to lift the look considerably. Deep red and rich purple, paired with silver, are the perfect colours for your Goth-themed wedding.

Include design elements like:

• Roses
• Skulls / skeletons
• Graves
• Old-world weapons (swords, clubs, and so on)
• Feathers

Attire and Accessories
The attire of a gothic wedding can vary enormously in specific styles. You may opt for a grand ball gown or a sexy little number that is more revealing, in a suggestive vamp kind of style. Whatever you decide, remember to incorporate plenty of black, red and purple, as well as lace and leather. Tutus look surprisingly good when incorporated into a Goth wedding theme. These may be the perfect option for the bridesmaids and flower girl.

Fascinators with netting and feathers are great options for the Goth bride. They are elegant and pretty, while still mysteriously deathly.

Bridal shoes can be chunky leather boots with hefty buckles and laces, or feminine heels with lace detail, depending on the style of your dress. For a really feminine look, carry a black lace parasol instead of flowers.

The groom and groomsmen should don formal suits with long tailored jackets and a top hat. Their suits should not be absolutely pristine, though. Rather, have a bit of their shirts untucked as well as a skull or rose motif appearing somewhere in their attire to create the suitable style.

Décor
Your décor gives you an opportunity to have some great fun with your Goth theme. Keep it dark and spooky, immersing your guests in a mysterious ambience. For a really dramatic approach, design your venue to look like a graveyard, complete with mock gravestones and dead flowers. In addition, here are some more design ideas to perfect your theme:

• Dry red roses well ahead of time and use arrangements of these as your table centrepieces and floral bouquets. Another option is to remove the heads completely and carry only a bouquet of headless stems.
• Use only black, red and purple candles to achieve adequate lighting. This will be dramatic and eerie, but still maintain the beauty of candlelight.
• Get props from a party shop and use these liberally around the venue, including broken pillars, gravestones, zombie masks and skulls.
• Carved stones and bulky textiles are essential to your theme.

Guest Favours
Give each of the special people that shared your romantic wedding with you a parting gift that will help them to remember your day. Keep your guest favours in line with your Goth theme. For example:

• Velvet tie-bags filled with liquorice (ideal for its black colour).
• Black or red candles.
• Top hats for men and lace gloves for women.